Friends are important in just about everybody’s life. Nobody wants to have a friend that is not true to who they really are or are being your friend for the wrong reasons. Friendships many times last longer than romantic relationships so they need to be built on a strong foundation. If a friendship is built on lies, then it will never last. The good news is that there are ways in which you can spot fake friendships before they put you in a bad spot.
Spotting Bad Friends
One of the clear cut signs that show that your friend is not a true friend is if they make you feel guilty for not hanging out with them. Everybody has their own personal lives to do with and do not need to be made to feel guilty for not making time with every single friend they have. You probably stopped hanging out with them for a reason so chances are you should not start up again. Do not let them make you feel guilty for moving on with your life.
A friend who consistently makes promises that they are unable to keep are not good friends. These types of friends typically make plans with you that they have no plans of ever keeping. This is a friendship that is based mostly on lies and broken promises so you should not continue to pursue them. If they wanted to spend time with you then they would, and not make excuses as to why they can’t.
Recognizing Your Soulmate
There are times when you meet someone and instantly feel a connection with them unlike you have ever felt with anyone else. They may have told you a joke in college and you fell in love with them that very instant. You may have noticed them in a crowded bar and always remember that moment like it was yesterday. For other people, it is not that simple. Some people rely on a series of coincidences that connect the them in certain ways. These can be small connections that turn into something bigger and create a strong connection between you and your soulmate.
Some people feel it right in their gut from the moment that they meet their soulmate. You may have felt as though you were in the right place at the right time or the wrong place at the wrong time, and it led you to meet the person of your dreams. It can happen in a number of different ways and is unique to each individual couple.
Soulmates are not only good for your personal life but also your professional and spiritual lives as well. Once you find that soulmate you will be a much more successful person than you were before you met them. Encouraging one another is the key to success in all aspects of your relationship with your soulmate
Category: Life , Relationship